The conversations have me reflecting on the joys of friendships. Some relationships have been in place for most of my life -- like before my first birthday -- while others have come along as I've moved through my career in different venues across this country. Some are the type you know will be with you for life, regardless of where we might find ourselves located. Others may not stand that test of geography, but are nonetheless valued and important. Without friends, life would be much more difficult if not impossible to maneuver. Friends help us celebrate the small and large triumphs and to face the small and large despairs. They share with us and we share with them -- that reciprocity is key to the equation. Friends are able to pick up when it may be a day or month or year between visits. They are close in our minds and hearts even if not physically beside us every day. An address book that I had years ago stated on the cover that friendship was a gift. I believe it is a gift we give to others, but it is also a gift we give ourselves by being open to others. Changing locations for work or personal reasons can bring fear of being alone, but as long as we remain open to the idea, we will find friends wherever we are.
Two songs came to mind today and I've chosen to include them both. The lyrics of the first fit well with some of my musings today. The second one has been shared on this blog before, but it just seemed to fit the outing tonight. The video seems to focus a bit more on the singer than the topic, so just shut the window and listen without the distraction <smile>. Enjoy!
Friends -- Elton John
Good Friend and a Glass of Wine -- Leann Rimes
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