Day 3 - 69 -- Trusting Strangers

I've realized lately how often we are in a situation where we must place our trust in strangers -- people we've never seen or spoken with, knowing nothing about who they area. Neither do they know who we are nor our philosophical approach  to life. It seems an oxymoron to trust strangers (after all we've been told not to from a young age <smile>). It is at best paradoxical. When we encounter new people -- a new health care provider, a banker, a potential employer, a religious figure, those who move our belongings from one point to another, or those who manage our final exit from this world and the resultant resting places -- it can be challenging to fully trust. Yes, they are experienced and come with recommendations, but having time to chat with them to understand a bit about who they are and vice versa, helps significantly.

The other realization that has come to me is that even when we feel alone, stressed, confused or scared, there are many people available to help us through. Some of the folks are trained to minimize the unease we feel, while others may just smile or assist us with a task, never knowing the full situation that surrounds us. I've encountered all of the above in one way or another throughout life and am finding new connections along the current journey. It takes time to help put someone at ease, and that is appreciated.

The chorus of a song ran through my mind as I pondered this over the past few days. The lyrics have multiple meanings, but the main one is understanding that others are there and can be entrusted with our needs in difficult times. Enjoy!

You are not Alone -- Michael Jackson