Today marked the end of allhallowtide or hallowmas, the three days of all hallows eve (Halloween), All Saint's Day and All Soul's day. This group of Catholic holidays remembers those who have died. This three day period also marks Dia de los Muertos, the Mexican Day of the Dead -- a day of remembrance and connection with those who have passed away. At this time of year, the gaelic festival of Samhain (from a pagan celtic festival) occurs. This celebration deals with the end of summer and the onset of the long darkness of winter. Other cultures have similar days at this time of year. It is a time to think of the abundance of summer and welcome the change of season, both of which deal with death in nature. It seems reasonable that this should be a time to think of and honour family and friends who have died whether recently or long past.
I'll admit to thinking of many people with whom I can no longer chat on the phone or over a cup of tea. It isn't like wallowing in the sadness, which it there of course, but thinking of who I am because these people were in my life. There are moments of tears, but more of smiles and positive reflection. Thinking of a selection that could fit this brought me to many different songs. I settled on one that has lines that deal with a more recent loss, but also note some happy memories. It was written by the singer/songwriter after the death of musician friend. It is a beautiful glimpse into the ups and downs of grief from the viewpoint of the singer. Enjoy!
Cryin' for Me (Wayman's Song -- Toby Keith
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